A few weeks ago Scarlet and I went out to meet a woman living in a treatment facility with her two young children. The lady was very sweet, the kids seemed happy, and all seemed well. Thursday her CM told us that this woman had been caught not only doing drugs in the facility, but distributing them as well. Talk about surprised. I need to work on taking things at face value.
The CM was hoping the mother could move into another facility and take the kids with her. If it couldn't be arranged the kids would have been safety resourced. Fast forward to yesterday morning; as soon as we get in the office the on call foster care worker is upset. The guardian ad litem petitioned the judge to have the kids removed from the mother. So, of course it looks like DFCS lied and screwed up the case. I'm seeing how DFCS catching the flack for things that the office really has no control over. The GAL in our county often disagrees with the DFCS office, but of course it DFCS who must carry out the orders of the court.
The on-call worker felt bad about it and we had a visit at the office yesterday for the mom and her two boys. They are such a sweet little family. The mom actually went to school with the foster mother and got some comfort out of that.
Scarlet and I also go to sit in on a family team meeting. It was very different than any others I've seen. The meeting involved a 14 year old, placed in the adoptive home of a single woman. The meeting was for the young girl who had started acting out in the past few months and saying she did not want to be adopted.
The girl voiced concerns about betraying her family, not wanting to change her name, and not wanting something she felt was a permanent and legal break with her birth family - all very valid I think. The meeting lasted about 3 hours and could have gone much longer. The girl left the room a few times and shut down completely a few times when she felt like no one was listening to her. She said she just wanted to be in foster care until she was 18. By the end of the meeting; the hope was for the girl to go into respite for a while, to have a break. She seemed very excited about the idea. After the meeting we had lunch with the girl, her prospective adoptive mother, and her therapist. It was fun!
And I can't leave out the home visit I went on Thurday, where I'm sure roaches were crawling over me and there were a million dogs and cats all over the place. Delightful!
Also, made my first visit the jail. I realized I had never even been inside a jail before. It looks a lot like it does in movies.
Monday we should find out our placements for next year!
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